What's your theory on falling in love with an incompatible star sign?

I'm head over heals in love with my girlfriend. She's a taurus and I'm an aquarius. We are incompatable according to compatibility charts. We have arguements but mostly they help us learn alot about ourselves. I want to know what your theory is on falling in love with incompatible star signs. Also were lesbians, so do u think it could b different when the dynamic is 2 females instead of "traditional" male/female relationships?What's your theory on falling in love with an incompatible star sign?In real astrology, Sun signs are not used for compatibility analysis. There are no "incompatible" signs because the whole chart is taken into consideration. Real astrologers know that sun sign compatibility is practically worthless.



In order to answer this question correctly, you need to compare the time, place, and date of birth of you and the other person.

It important to compare the degrees between the signs and planets of each chart also. Sun signs are notoriously unreliable for compatibility analysis,

so you really do need to look at the aspects to tell.



If you want to create a Western compatibility chart, you can go to http://www.astro-software.com/cgi-bin/as鈥?/a> and put in both birth dates. It will give you a

compatibility analysis which is much more accurate and exact than anything sun sign based.





In general:

Soul mate connections are seen in the aspects between the moon, South Node and soft aspects to Saturn.

Sexual attraction is generally seen in aspects of Venus and Mars.

Intellectual attraction is generally seen in aspects between Mercury and Sun.

Emotional attraction is generally seen in aspects between Moon and Mars.What's your theory on falling in love with an incompatible star sign?
The theory is a classic. Opposites attract. You may not always get each other, but you're drawn to the person anyway. There are couples who stay together for a long time, regardless of compatibility (even when it's not dictated by astrology) because they know how to handle conflict and make compromises. You're on to something when you say that your being in a lesbian relationship affects the dynamics. Much of the literature on astrology is heterosexist, and these are sources that I ignore.



Moreover, when there's less need there is to conform to rigid heterosexual roles, there are also fewer things to fight about. Many hetero couples argue about housework and child-rearing, wherein one partner, usually the woman, feels that she's doing more work than the other.What's your theory on falling in love with an incompatible star sign?I am pisces and with a gemini. Apparently we are really really incompatible. I do not think you can trust compatibility analysis. Because there is nothing wrong with our relationship, we are the best of friends, and understand each other so well it is scary. Most of our emotions, thoughts and everything is in sync with each other.

When reading our compatibility chart, I started looking for those problems they mentioned there in our relationship....the problem is, that it was problems that was not there to begin with in the first place, and if we put any belief into these compatibility charts, we create new problems in our relationships which would not have been there in the first place. So no, do not rely on these compatibility stuff - I think they just make the problems in there so generalized, so that it might hit home with any couple.

The only things that can make 2 people truely incompatible is if they have different values in life. Contributing to this, is if two people grew up so differently that they cant see eye to eye about anything.

So if you ladies are very different, like all people are from each other - just compromise where there is differences and learn to understand each other.What's your theory on falling in love with an incompatible star sign?
Well horoscopes can't tell anyone everything. I believe they can help us find our center and figure things out, but if you love somebody that your not "compatible" with, then hey, your doing pretty good. It's kind of like going against fate in a way. But in a great way that says "I control my own life"



As for the same sex thing, it may have a slight difference because females are more caring and willing to work things out, but other than that, not really.



Oh and congratulations on a happy relationship :)What's your theory on falling in love with an incompatible star sign?Astrology simply is a bigoted concept. No one chooses when they are born. Or what race, sex, and nationality they are born as. What makes astrology special bias, even against other fellow believers, better than racism and sexism?What's your theory on falling in love with an incompatible star sign?
Don't let any stupid starsign get in your way deep inside you too are aware that positions of planets can't have any impact on human lives. Get realistic free yourself from the clutches of superstition. Be an atheist serve humanity.